Fun. Cheeky. Sweet.
Let's get a little naughty...
Hi! I'm Hayden, a professional bisexual male escort based in Sydney. I'm you're average guy, fun and casual with a delicious naughty side.
If you want to know a little more about me, I have a killer sweet tooth and can direct you to some of the BEST desserts and chocolates in town. I like to read about local history (especially about Sydney), enjoy theatre productions, and know more random trivia than it’s reasonable for any person to know! I’d describe myself as someone who tries not to take life (or myself) too seriously. I’m authentic, grounded and fun - sometimes a bit cheeky, often passionate, but always eager to learn more about you.
Although I don’t take myself too seriously, I place the utmost importance on informed and enthusiastic consent, listening carefully to your wants and needs, and tailoring our time together to exactly those. For anyone who might bring experiences of trauma or disability with them, I’ll always offer support with compassion and care.
Nothing makes me happier than hearing about your idea of the perfect time together. Whether we go kayaking in the sunset, make a mess in the kitchen, or delight in something a bit more niche and naughty,
Getting started
Intimacy and connection isn’t a one-size-fits all, and you deserve to have an experience that truly meets your needs and desires. For that reason, I always prefer to chat directly about what services you might be looking for and how I can create space for exploring those.
The first step (which may or may not be a daunting one!) is just to reach out and send me a message. The best way is via email, and it really helps to know when you might like to meet, if you are Sydney-based, and any specific requests you might have in mind. As an explorative person, there’s no request too big or small and I love having the opportunity to learn more about people and what they enjoy.
It’s absolutely normal to feel nervous, especially when meeting someone new for the first time (even though I’m a male escort, I still feel nervous meeting new people all the time!). But embracing those nerves means being able to try something new, exciting, and to ultimately broaden the scope of our experiences - and to me, that’s unquestionably worthwhile.
When we meet, I kindly request payment to be made at the beginning of our time together (BeemIt or cash). That way, we can enjoy the rest of our date where we can do whatever tickles your fancy. Whether that’s snuggling up for some Netflix and chill, going out on an adventure together, enjoying each other’s company over some fine dining, or simply learning more about each other’s desires.
Rates
Boyfriend Experience
(These experiences can be anything you want them to be, whether that's a sensual massage, some time laying in bed holding each other, or something more sensual and erotic/kink-focused)
Outcall - $350 p/hr (to hotel rooms)
Incall - $400 p/hr (minimum 2hrs)
Social Companionship
(If you're wanting someone to accompany you on a date/night out, or even just wanting to organise an initial meet-up over coffee to get to know me before committing to anything further)
$200 / hourly
DINNER DATE SPECIAL
2 hours for dinner, & 2 hours of play
(The perfect choice for a first meeting where we can really take our time getting to know each other, have some flirtatious fun, and then play into the evening. Dinner's on you, dessert is on me)
$1100
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you see clients with Disabilities?
Definitely! I passionately believe that companionship and intimacy is something everybody deserves and I love working with my clients to find out how I can best meet their needs.
How do I make a booking?
The best way is by using the contact form on my website which you can find here. Otherwise you can always send me an email to bookings@haydenwinter.com
Where do we meet?
I offer out calls to hotels or serviced apartments. I am always happy to make a booking for us at your expense. Alternatively I can recommend some lovely places for us to enjoy our time together. Travel outside of the Sydney CBD may incur a fee. On the day of our meeting, we can organise to meet each other in a public place (eg a nearby cafe or a hotel lobby) or I am happy to meet you at the hotel room.
When can we meet?
I often book out in advance and so last minute bookings can be difficult to arrange at times, but feel free to drop me a message and I'm always happy to see if we can set up a time.
How do I pay?
Payment can made at the start of our meeting either via cash or through the BeemIt app.
What should we wear?
You're welcome to wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. Some people enjoy dressing up as part of the experience, while others like to keep it casual and comfy - this is entirely down to you.
Depending on what we have planned, I'm likely to arrive wearing denim jeans and a black button down shirt. However I always welcome outfit requests depending on your preference. This might look like anything from a business suit to a luxe tuxedo.
Do we have to have sex? What if I change my mind?
We certainly don't have to have sex. We could cuddle on the couch, I can give you a massage, we could even go for walk. The time is yours, and we can do whatever makes you feel safe, happy and connected.
During our time together, you are always in control (whether we are doing something sexual or not) and there is never, and never will be, pressure to do anything you are not comfortable with. If you're ever feeling uncomfortable or even just uncertain, I'm always happy to stop what we're doing to check-in around how you're feeling, and to switch gears to another activity if you'd prefer. This time is about YOU, and what you want/need.
Sometimes I can feel anxious about my looks or age, How do we navigate that?
We're on the same page! You're certainly not alone feeling this. I often feel anxiety around how I look and how old (or young!) I am too. I think there is beauty in absolutely everyone, and part of why I love this job is having the opportunity to show women how beautiful and special they are. Our perceived imperfections are often what makes us unique and I enjoy being able to celebrate those with you.
What if I feel we're not a good fit after we meet?
That's absolutely ok. In many ways finding an escort you connect with is no different from finding a good partner/therapist or doctor! We all have different qualities that mean we gel with some people more so than others. If in the first ten minutes of our first meeting you decide that we may not be the right fit for each other, we can end our meeting early and your payment (minus 15%) will be refunded.
Can I extend my booking?
Of course you can, provided I have availability in my schedule that day. A booking can be extend either beforehand or during our time together.
Do you practice safe sex?
Yes, I always use a condom without any exceptions. Please let me know if you have a latex allergy. I also test regularly for STI's for your safety and mine.
Should I do an STI test before our booking?
Though not required for our booking, regularly testing ensures that everyone is kept safe, and that can provide both of us with extra peace of mind. Tests can be organised easily with your GP or a local sexual health clinic
